I really don't see what the problem is...
If some military dude (or woman) met a chick online, and then they started dating, and then she cheated on him... Then I would say that it was a bad judgment call. And that sort of thing just happens. People are going to do what they're going to do.
I will say, though, that before I met my wonderful husband... if I knew about this whole... Dating site for military people... then, I totally would have joined one! Ha!
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